1 Corinthians 13:4 – Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered it keeps no record of wrongs. Loves does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, it always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. (NIV 1978)
My Musings – It is clear to see that what many try to pass off as love is really selfishness.
My Advice – Keep this as the standard of love that you aspire to with a mate, a friend, family and fellow Christians.